Hooks and Etheric Cords…
What are they? And how do they function or interfere with your everyday life and personal vibration? It’s actually a fascinating subject and something that most humans are unaware of so let me explain how we operate on this planet…
Vibration: What is it?
We are energy beings. We all hold a life force. When our life force is no longer within us the doctors pronounce us dead. The life force that we are is energy. You could also call it spirit or primal essence but in order for it to operate within us we must be alive. And if we are alive then we are thinking and feeling. Thinking and feeling creates energy and energy is what surrounds your body. What you are thinking and feeling creates a force around you that holds a vibration. There are many energy fields surrounding the physical body but lets keep it simple and just say that you are a walking energy bubble of your thoughts, feelings, what you love the most and what you fear the most. Anything you give your attention to is in your vibrational bubble. Your vibrational bubble transmits a frequency and attracts more of the same… Freaky huh? To think that most of us are operating and manifesting all of the time but not paying attention to the power of our thoughts and feelings? Imagine the trouble we are getting ourselves into on a daily basis!!!! Are you thinking and feeling things that make you feel good? Or are you pissed at the world and thinking all those annoying things that make you miserable? Yikes!!!!!
How to Create an Etheric Cord…
Now imagine that you are having a rather discouraging day, life is annoying and you call a friend. Your friend is also having a shitty experience and you both begin to complain!!! Well in one aspect to know that you’re not the only one is reassuring, it can confirm that you are indeed human and tough days are normal but on a more subtle level something else has happened… You thoughts and energy have reached out to each other and now you both have a little cord of energy feeding each other your emotions… Mmmmmmm… You both have just created a psychic hook!!! Psychic hooks are unhealthy and drain your energy. Even if you love the person it is really not a good idea to be hooked into them. It can clutter thoughts as you take on the energy and emotion of the other person. Love which is constant always remains. It shines from the heart and we touch each other all of the time by opening our heart and shining our light and love outwards… Hooks and cords are naughty, like entities they suck energy.
We’ve all been in situations where someone is in pain and we’ve really felt a lot of compassion for them and at the end of the conversation we are really drained. That’s because we have been feeding our ‘friend’ energy it’s been slowly sucked through the cord and they can even thank you and tell you they are feeling better. What to do?
Well I certainly don’t recommend hiding from situations that create the potential for etheric cord building as you will have to hide in a cave somewhere and avoid all human contact!!! Some people do that, it’s a great way to avoid humans and problems such as conflict, intimacy and interaction… And for some people a cave, mediation and cultivating spiritual growth and awareness is a chosen path, they are called to it and it benefits them immensely, but for most of us we are actually going to have to deal with humans on a daily basis. So here’s a great tip.
Vibrational Tips…
When I was 21 I had my first ever tarot reading. He was phenomenal and it was an amazingly powerful experience for me and this is one of the first things he said:
“People are always going to come to you with their problems. You have a choice put your hand down and pull them up. Do not go down with them.”
Of course it took me a very long time to grasp this concept. Thousands of hooks and cords and a lot of emotional stress. Being empathic it is very easy for me to feel what people are going through and my vibration and YOURS is the most important thing on the planet. Because without a high vibration you will feel like shit.
Do. Love your friend. See this person’s spirit. Their inner strength. Hold space. Most people feel better knowing that someone is there to listen. When you are genuinely interested in another person and how they really feel you have already given a gift. And then once they feel safe, connected and understood you can focus on finding solutions. When you are motivated towards lifting someones spirit you are in a positive space which keeps you centered. When you remain centered and grounded you are connected to your inner being and source energy. From this space your vibration stays high and aligned and you are lifting them up just by your presence and open heart. There are no hooks or cords from this zone and you will be pulling this person up and empowering them. Cool huh?
Do not!!! Get sucked into the story and start talking about all the awful things that happened to you. Yes you will connect with this person and it will bring temporary relief and some people only know how to connect through complaining and feeling bad because we live in a world where that is the norm, but you will also drop down into their abyss and drop in vibration. Now you have a friendship created from emotional need and negative emotion and a nice strong hook to help each other continue to feel that way. Caroline Myss calls it wound association and we are all very good at it. This is how you both end up feeling drained and overwhelmed. You have both just confirmed that the world is indeed a savage awful place and now you can wonder around with your newly dredged up fears in your vibrational bubble which sends out to the world; “I would like more of this.” Yikes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Sharing and swapping stories is something we all do, it’s how we meet each other and connect and learn. It’s the frequency of the stories you are sharing. If you are sharing and feeling worse and begin to relive your story then that is where the problem lies. If you are sharing stories and remain centered you can talk about anything without dropping in vibration.)
The Savior…
You will also not help your friend by going into rescue mode and treating them like a victim. Victims love sympathy and pity but now you have implied that they need rescuing and you are the savior. This vibration is great cord building stuff and creates a low vibration which will gently suck the life out of you!!! It doesn’t matter how tough someones life is, you cannot help them by treating them like a victim. You just enable them to continue behaving like that and they will never find a solution to the problem they have.
The Healer…
In my world people come to me with things that are extraordinary. I deal with colossal doses of emotional trauma on a regular basis. I have some help. I am tuned into an extremely high vibration and have a whole bunch of angels shining love and compassion to the person in question and all I see is such a strong being with huge potential to shine so much light. To come here to this planet and experience such negativity… Wow! You have to be hugely strong to pick a life like that and it is my job to draw that strength to the surface, align that person with their power and hold the space for them to realign and realize that it’s ok… They may have some shit in their vibration that needs attending to but they too can be happy, empowered and whole if they so desire and are willing to shift the negative energy within their vibration, to shift their attitude and shine their true self. We all have that birth right here on this planet. Nobody is better than anyone else, just a bunch of emotional pain that continues to feed the vibration to attract more of…
Love is the biggest healer. Love always remains… The hooks and cord keep you sucked into the energetic vibration of another being and that is not healthy.
Cleanse, Love, Uplift & Support…
So take a smudge stick. Sage will do and smoke your body when you have tough interactions or Epsom salts in a bath or use natural salt in a shower to clean your vibrational bubble especially if you are sensitive you will feel a huge difference immediately and… go easy on yourself… we all have a little hooking and cording going on sometimes… none of us are perfect and we may have the odd victim/rescue moment to deal with!!!! Just make sure that when you need to talk to someone that the person you go to is uplifting and supportive… That’s what true friends are…
Bye for now………………….
